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Letter 15
EGOISM
Man has never been free from egoism, but in the second half of the 20th century egoism became a
fatal disease of humankind. Man used to be closer to God, but today when man factually lost God,
he lost love too, and his attention was concentrated only on his own self. The humans are so full
of themselves, that no room remains for others, even for their own children. I'm sure parents will
argue with me, they will say that my ideas are foolish because they do their best for their children,
they lay themselves out, sometimes they even condescend to do things that are beneath their dignity
just to give everything to their children. But let's be more openhearted, isn't all this done for
strengthening our positions in society? The child most of all needs relationship with us, needs
our attention, needs the warmth of our souls. But we, to defend our own egos and to justify ourselves
try to give him material things instead of those things I've mentioned above. I know that lot of
things are necessary to bring up a child. Being wealthy is far from being bad but at what price?
Being wealthy maybe it's not bad but the question is what is the price of this? When money becomes
end in itself, it demands the sacrifice of everything human and makes us its slaves. When money
is the purpose in itself it erodes all human values and enslaves you. Have you ever seen happiness
as a result of wealth only? Look at the present day. On the one hand, parents are engaged in business
and personal affairs ("I also want to live, don't I?), they are always too busy, on other hand,
a well-provided, comfortable conditions in which children live under the guidance of a nurse, television,
computer, so they are left to chance and they miss their parents. The result? Estrangement and putting
personal interests in the forefront from both sides.
A human's personal interests should come into coordination with the interests of the family, state
and mankind. The breaking of this chain threatens the whole mankind with peril. Today everybody
takes into consideration only personal interests and tries to bring everything in coordination with
the latter. And egoism is nothing else.
You mustn't think that I deny everything personal. If one does not respect oneself it will be impossible
for the one to respect others, but we mustn't confuse self-respect and self-conceit (vanity). I'm
not against being wealthy either and I am not pulling you back to the caves. Humans have never been
so comfortable and well-provided as they are today, and have never been so estranged, so single
and so lonely. Nor there has ever been such deficiency of love, and mankind has never been facing
such danger. The only way of surviving is to realize our own egoism, to enkindle the extinguished
love, to find each other, to stand together, and to take care of each other. This is what life is...
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